Love nestarts with us. It is our life and we need to be in control of it. Not in control of someone else, or someone else’s problems or someone else’s anything. If weds to start with us, with you. We are the ones that have to live in this world, deal with our emotions, deal with us. Even when we have others in our life, we are still alone in some respects and if we can not deal with/look after ourselves then we are in trouble. We are adults and although it is hard and very challenging at times, we need to learn to be with ourselves. To eat and drink by ourselves, to walk by ourselves, to learn, to be by ourselves.
If we don’t get to know ourselves, how can we expect someone else to get to know us?
If we don’t understand ourselves, how can we expect someone else to understand us?
If we don’t love ourselves, how can we expect someone else to love us?
Whatever we do, think, feel, it all e are not in control of our own life, who is?..........